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 09:47 | 28/Mar/2007 | 75 Comment(s)
Looking good

We all want to look good , but in our teenage due to hormonal changes , pollution , exam. stress ,often this seems virtually impossible to achieve. Nearly 80% of the teenagers get some degree of Acne (Pimple/Zits) .
      Acne - combination of blackheads, whiteheads & a variety of imflamed lesions, which appears in the form of pustules , bumps or larger nodules.
      Acne strikes just when good looks becomes a major concern , which may sometime takes away our happiness , ruin  our confidence & shatter our self esteem.
Even in my teenages I faced the same problem  & at that time, I had no idea about anything related to pimples. but from the last  3yrs. I am treating my skin in my very own style ,which helped me a lot. Today my face is pimple free , no scars , no whiteheads  or blackheads , so I decided to share my ideas today with u people.
Here r the few simple steps to follow:-
1) Wash your face with Chandrika Soap twice a day - in the morning & at night before going to bed.
2) Prepare a face pack every week  for the whole week , keep it in the refrigerator & apply daily in the  evening..
    Face pack   :-  Basan (2  T.spoon) + Turmeric powder(1/2 T. spoon )  +            Sandalwood powder (1 T.spoon) + Honey (1/2 T.spoon) + Curd (1 T.spoon) + neem powder (Pinch of) + Multani Mitti(1/2 T spoon) + Cinnamon/Dalchini  powder( pinch of ).
3) After applying chandrika soap at night , Apply Rose water.
                                 Pour rose water on the cotton Ball & apply it on your face.
4) Remember it -Always make use of clean towels.
5) Take fruit juices & drink a lot of  water everyday.

I hope my suggestions will definitly going to help u , if u follow it everyday ,as your everyday's routine.

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 14:17 | 26/Mar/2007 | 34 Comment(s)
Spell it out instead of assuming it.

Even the most attentive partner can occasionally misread signals.so try not to make an issue out of it. , go ahead , express your feelings and your needs. Many a time it happens that partners feel embarrassed to express their  needs and desires, end up feeling disappointed  and hurt ,without bothering to analyse "why".    Partners are not mind readers so try to spell out your feeling  and requirement , instead of assuming  that your partner will understand it. Most people who suppress their wants (big or small) over a long period  ,end up feeling bitter and frustrated , while blaming their partners for having been insensitive to  ( unexpressed ) desires. They forget that there partners are not trained psychologists ,so how they possibly know what's on the other person's mind  if it remains there ???

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 15:23 | 21/Mar/2007 | 16 Comment(s)
Each task is important

There are some who go through life performing routine tasks reasonably well, but without the feeling that there is any great importance attached to what they do or that it would make any difference if the work were never done.Only a realatively few individuals are driven by a deep conviction that what they are doing is important and that they have a distinctive mission to perform in doing it well..These few are the ones who change things for good or for evil, who largely determine the course which the world will take .

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 15:03 | 20/Mar/2007 | 10 Comment(s)
Suffering can be Redemptive

Suffering - whatever form it may take - seems negative , without purpose ,and without values, but all suffering need not be so. Most of the time suffering is imposed upon us in ways beyond either our control or our understanding. Under such circumstances we pray for strength to endure and hope to profit in some way by the experience.
  There are situations where individuals voluntarily choose suffering for themselves in order to protect another .Such actions are ex-pressions of love , and love can transform suffering into sacrifice.
To do something for the sake of another , is an ex-pression  of  love , and love is redemptive!

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 12:03 | 16/Mar/2007 | 12 Comment(s)
Accept Compliments

   Why do some people find it so hard to accept compliments gracefully?
They are normally in the habit of throwing away the comments that spoils the effect of the compliments.Perhaps they don't believe on them.
They never think  ,How do they feel ? if they compliment someone and the other person don't accept it.

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 13:11 | 14/Mar/2007 | 19 Comment(s)
The D - Word

Why???
          Why???  Our society advises brides to go to any lengths to " save " their marriage. The D - Word (Divorce) is still so dreaded that most middle class parents won't utter it ,  for fear of attracting  it's malevolent power.

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 15:12 | 9/Mar/2007 | 13 Comment(s)
Comparison shopping

Do u ever compare yourself  with others?

When we r feeling  low we often compare ourselves unfavourably  with others. We go on   "comparison shopping"   where we  ' buy into ' the concept of a comparative scale of  self  worth.

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 13:13 | 8/Mar/2007 | 21 Comment(s)
Men's Behaviour(like 2 side's of a coin)

I personally feels that, there are two kinds of  men, one will become incredibly defensive  & stubborn when a woman tries to improve him, while the other will agree to improve, but later will revert back to the old behaviour.they always feels that she is trying to change him. A man either actively resists or passively resists. when a man doesnot feel loved just the way he is, he will either consciously or unconciously repeat the behaviour .It's not because they are lazy but because men have so much need to feel accepted.

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 12:08 | 2/Mar/2007 | 26 Comment(s)
why???why???why???

why??
    why?? I really don't understand why the husbands  think diplomatically.
Normally they don't like to see their wife's in minis,shorts ,short dresses etc .but if they walk through the street ,they really admires if they see someone else(lady or girl) in such type of dresses. 

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 03:04 | 2/Mar/2007 | 17 Comment(s)
Bangalore

I don't understand  why the infrastructure of Bangalore is not at all good. Roads r not proper.and the traffic , O my god! it's really horrible.looks like a fish market in the morning & evening hours.It almost took 25 to 40 min. to reach airport even from the near by Domlur (New Shanti Sagar).

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